By her thirties, under social pressure and the fear of time passing, she may become a “pick-me” woman – willing to lower her self-worth just to be chosen, even trying to “buy” a man in order not to be left alone or without a child.
If she grew up only with her mother and without a father, she may subconsciously hold the belief that “a man is needed only to have children – and that’s all.” This attitude can draw career-driven yet emotionally cold, calculating, and exploitative men that criticize her.
Atma Karaka Venus
The Atma Karaka is the planet with the highest degree in the natal chart. If this planet is Venus, the person’s soul lessons lie in the realm of love and relationships. Such individuals are often drawn to unworthy or incompatible partners, serving as catalysts for spiritual growth.
Through pain and loss, they learn to release attachment and avoid clinging to destructive relationships.
Retrograde Venus
Those with retrograde Venus express love in an unusual and often misunderstood way. The root cause may be insecurity or low self-esteem, though outwardly they may seem confident.
A woman with retrograde Venus breaks traditional dating rules – she might take the initiative, make the first move, or openly express interest. However, many men interpret this as a lack of self-worth, not as confidence, and lose attraction. As a result, she may experience short-lived romances or attract emotionally damaged partners. No one has ever seen an egg swim toward the sperm – until they meet a woman with retrograde Venus.
At times, immaturity and the fairy-tale dream of marriage can drive such a woman into the wrong relationships or make her obsessed with marriage at a very young age, when her life is just beginning.
After marrying and starting a family, she eventually realizes that love is not as simple as she imagined.
Her life lesson is to learn to love herself as she is, instead of seeking a man to fill her emotional void.
Jupiter
Jupiter in Earth Signs: Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn
Like Venus in Earth signs, Jupiter in Earth signs seeks material security and growth through practical means, but it may be emotionally or spiritually limited.
This restricts the natural sense of expansion, faith, and ease in relationships.
Men whom a woman with such Jupiter placements attracts are often focused on material success, yet less emotionally sensitive and unlikely to pursue deep or soulful connections.
Capricorn is Jupiter’s sign of debilitation; therefore, a woman may attract a man who is far from her ideal partner. In such cases, it is important to check Jupiter’s position in the D9 (Navamsha) chart and the D7 (Saptamsha) chart to see his full characteristics from all angles. If Jupiter’s positions are better in these divisional charts, the situation is not necessarily as dire.
Moon Positioned 6–8 Houses Away from Jupiter
In a woman’s chart, this placement creates an inner conflict between what she believes to be “right” and the kind of men she actually chooses throughout her life. She may compromise with unworthy partners, which later leads to difficulty trusting others in relationships.
The paradox is that she chose them herself, even if she hoped everything would turn out well.
With time and experience, however, she learns to choose better and more consciously.
General Placements
Ruler of the 5th House in the 8th House