The real problem with this “manifestation” industry begins where all kinds of so-called “coaches” or “mentors” start handing out advice like: “Listen to this sound, and he’ll call you,” or shifting all responsibility for a woman’s life onto her with lines such as: “If you’re not in a relationship, it means you don’t want it enough,” “Something in you attracts the wrong men,” or other primitive formulas like: “You just don’t know how to build relationships with men, that’s why you’ve ended up doing everything yourself – now you’re so independent.”
All these statements are directed at women without any genuine understanding of who they are, and without any professional psychological evaluation. Such “mentors” never pause to consider that there are forces beyond what a person consciously wants or does. It is not simply a matter of wanting or not wanting – that notion is deeply misleading.
That very “something” which attracts the wrong men is not necessarily your fault. Yes, perhaps there is some inner work to do; perhaps you simply need to learn to choose better and stop compromising – to stop wasting your time (and that is precisely why I am writing these words now). But perhaps it’s also time to understand, through your natal chart, what kind of men you are naturally inclined to attract – until the right one finally appears.
In a woman’s horoscope, Mars represents the partner or lover, while Jupiter represents the husband. By analyzing the positions of Mars and Jupiter, along with: the 5th house (which, among other things, relates to romance and emotional connections), the 8th house (the house of intimacy), and the 7th house (the house of marriage and partnership), you can begin to understand why you have encountered men who weren’t truly right for you – and what will continue to happen if you keep holding on to men of that same type.
Mars
Mars + Rahu Conjunction – Angaraka Yoga
Rahu amplifies the demonic nature of Mars.
This is an extremely tense and volatile combination, bringing with it great power, impulsiveness, and intense passion, but also a strong tendency toward outbursts, obsessiveness (intrusive, uncontrollable thoughts), and violent quarrels when things go wrong.
It may lead to relationship instability or infidelity on the part of men. (Infidelity here does not necessarily mean a physical act with another woman; it refers to any form of betrayal or harmful deceit.)
The influence is even stronger when this yoga aspects the fifth house.
A woman with this configuration may attract unusual, unpredictable, or violent men – manipulative, emotionally volatile, and with a hidden aggressive side that eventually surfaces once they feel comfortable enough to reveal it.
In extreme cases, she may encounter men without moral values, with criminal tendencies, or those who make promises and create illusions of effort or devotion – only for it to later become clear that it was never sincere.
In some cases, such men refuse to let go, engaging in stalking or obsessive monitoring long after the connection has ended.
If you have this conjunction in your natal chart and begin to feel nauseous after arguments, or if unpleasant events happen soon after spending time with such a man, or you feel physically unwell – this is a clear sign to run.
It is said that when Mars or Jupiter are in conjunction with Rahu, one possible remedy for the chart holder is marriage to someone from a different culture, which can neutralize part of the negative influence – provided, of course, that other factors in the chart also indicate such a possibility.
Mars + Sun Conjunction