The problem arises when Saturn’s restraint comes from differences in values, which Mars refuses to accept or understand. For the Saturn person, it’s a waste of time to enter a relationship lacking axiological (value-based) and spiritual compatibility.
Partner 1’s Moon/Venus + Partner 2’s Mercury (same sign)
This can bring lively communication and even pleasure in the relationship (especially Venus–Mercury), but it rarely indicates long-term union.
Such romances often end within a few months – typically under half a year.
The Time When You Met
Regardless of both individuals’ natal charts, planets in the sky never stop moving – they continue to transit from house to house and trigger situations. The transit chart shows directly whether the time is favorable for romantic encounters.
When the timing is unfavorable, even if you meet someone, they won’t be right for you.
A person may appear who, if you overlook their major flaws early on, will cost you precious time and emotional energy. It’s crucial to be aware of what’s happening in the sky while keeping your feet firmly on the ground.
Sometimes people believe that when Jupiter transits the 7th house, the woman may meet her future husband or get married – but that’s not always the case. Possible reasons include: other planets are not positioned in houses conducive to marriage; the current planetary period (Dasha) does not support relationship formation; or Jupiter’s Ashtakavarga strength relative to that transit is weak.
For example, if Jupiter transits through Taurus, which is the woman’s 7th house, but in her Jupiter Ashtakavarga chart Taurus scores below 4, the chances of meeting her future husband during that transit are extremely low – even if other planets seem favorable.
The number indicated in each sign in the Ashtakavarga chart represents how many “liters of fuel” the planet has in that sign/house: 1 or close to 1 – “the tank is almost empty,” 4 – neutral, 8 – “the tank is full” – the planet has enough energy to manifest the transit’s promise.
Sometimes, a planet may transit a sign with a low score in the Ashtakavarga, yet the event still manifests – this happens due to planetary aspects from other signs that hold higher scores and reinforce the outcome.
Patterns in Your Horoscope
What Truly Attracts Certain Men to You – and the Gaslighting of “Reality Manifestation” Coaches
In our time, it has become extremely trendy to “manifest reality” – to decide what you want and then “attract” it through various techniques (writing something down, thinking about it, or, conversely, not thinking about it, etc.).
To be honest, these methods do not always work, especially when no actual energetic or magical application is involved. This is not necessarily because such techniques are bad – on the contrary, some are quite positive.
There are indeed cases when a few of them do work, thanks to: supportive planetary transits, our correct attitude or behavior in a given situation, or simply because certain events are destined to occur.