Transformania in Relationships

It may only indicate that “something will happen” – but not necessarily something positive. Sometimes this pattern signifies that one person compromised because the other managed to temporarily satisfy them. One must look carefully at all possible details.

By contrast, when several planets are 6–8 houses apart between the two charts, this often indicates a fundamental mismatch apparent even in the early stages of the relationship. The gap is almost impossible to bridge, as each partner desires a type of behavior or affection that the other simply cannot provide.

Example 1: A man with Venus in Taurus tries to invite on a date a woman with Venus in Libra. The Libra-Venus woman needs everything to be beautiful, refined, cultured, and respectful. The Taurus-Venus man, although he has excellent taste in women (after all, he chose to invite a beautiful lady), makes a serious mistake in how he invites her. Not only does he ask her out “right now,” for a rather late meeting (around 10 p.m.), but he even specifies which slippers he intends to wear – slippers that, in her view, look hopelessly unattractive and utterly unfit for a date.

When she points out that it is inappropriate to set up a meeting so unexpectedly – and at 10:30 p.m., when she’s already getting ready for bed – he replies that “it’s not that late” and that “there’s a first time for everything.” Naturally, the date never happened. Perhaps another woman with Venus in a different sign would have agreed to a sudden late-night meeting – but certainly not Mademoiselle Libra.

Example 2: Another interaction between a Venus-in-Taurus man and a Venus-in-Libra woman: He takes her for a walk in nature (probably one of the few things they have in common). The Taurus-Venus man, like a child, marvels at every mushroom or flower they encounter – and there are many – pausing at each one, admiring it as if he had never seen such things before. He examines them like museum pieces of art and then exclaims with satisfaction, “Cyclamens…” – with deep soulful peace (where I live, these flowers are quite common). By the second time, the Venus-in-Libra lady has to restrain herself from rolling her eyes.

Then they sit on a bench to enjoy the view. Nearby on the ground lies some trash and disposable dishes. Without hesitation and without gloves, the Taurus-Venus man decides that this is his life’s mission and begins to clean it up, which utterly disgusts the Venus-in-Libra woman. Then he expresses extreme views, justifying population reduction and blaming large families for polluting the planet.

The Venus-in-Libra woman shudders at these words – she believes in karma and knows that no soul is born without purpose, and the mere thought of a person deciding who should live and who should not terrifies her. Of course, it’s important to care for the environment, but it’s impossible to control everything everywhere (and who says the litter was left by a large family?).

Naturally, not every Venus-in-Taurus man behaves this way, and certainly there were other factors in his chart that enhanced such mannerisms.

Still, the more planets are 6–8 houses apart in synastry between two people, the more awkward and absurd situations of this kind tend to occur.

The D9 Chart

In Indian astrology, there is the main natal chart (D1) and numerous divisional charts.

One of the most significant among them is the Navamsha (D9) chart, which represents the nature of marriage, the spouse, and self-realization of the chart holder.

When evaluating compatibility, it is essential to analyze both the D1 and D9 charts of both partners.

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