Many women, at the very beginning of getting to know a man, ask this question with excitement and curiosity – only to immediately reject him upon discovering that he is a Virgo, while they are Gemini, and, after all, Virgo “isn’t compatible” with Gemini… They believe they “need” someone of the Air element. Or at least, that’s what they think.
The problem is that this is an extremely superficial test that says almost nothing about the other person. In many cases, the intuition may indeed be correct – he isn’t “the one” – but not because the poor man was born in the “wrong month.”
The only true way to understand whether he is “the one” or not is to judge by how he treats you.
And if you feel confused – that’s already a clear sign he definitely isn’t your man; moreover, his presence is likely blocking the path to your future husband.
But if you have only just begun dating and are tired of “crazy” or overly clingy men, it’s worth learning how to recognize red flags in the earliest stages of a relationship – and stop wasting your precious time on “spoiled” types.
Personally, I recommend casting a natal chart (both his and yours) exclusively according to the Indian (Vedic) horoscope.
Why? Because it has already been scientifically proven that it reflects the exact and true planetary positions in the sky.
Moreover, it is an ancient system, existing for thousands of years – and it has never failed anyone.
It is so accurate that it can even seem frightening. Each time I opened a man’s natal chart, I eventually realized that the failure of the relationship had not been accidental – and that the breakup could have been foreseen.
That’s why, after recognizing red flags early on, one must never “compromise” or hope that “things will somehow work out,” simply because “nobody’s perfect.”
Yes, nobody is perfect – but it’s far better to be happily single than trapped in a relationship with an unhappy partner.
Today, there are countless tools for building healthy, harmonious relationships – and Indian astrology is one of the most reliable among them.
Before analyzing any man’s natal chart, you should first deeply explore your own.
This helps to understand your karmic patterns and the kinds of challenges you may encounter.
Consequently, you’ll learn what can be done – at the very least, to change your attitude toward the men you meet, and at best – to learn how to choose wisely the one who truly suits you.
Before I present real chart examples, I must clarify: to determine someone’s suitability astrologically, you cannot judge by a single placement.
You must thoroughly analyze the entire chart and only then draw conclusions – and, of course, I will repeat – judge above all by how he treats you.
Synastry
Compatibility between two natal charts is evaluated through several factors: the planetary influences one partner’s planets cast upon the other’s; comparison of D1 (Rasi) and D9 (Navamsa) charts; Nakshatra (lunar mansion) compatibility; and a number of specific yogas (planetary combinations).
Compatibility Between Planets in Different Houses
The more cases where the same planet in one partner’s chart is located 5–9 houses apart from that same planet in the other partner’s chart, the higher the compatibility potential.
Example: One partner’s Venus is in Sagittarius, and the other’s Venus is in Aries – that is, five houses apart in one direction and nine in the other.
However, in many cases this alone is not sufficient to guarantee compatibility, love, or a lasting bond.