We give birth to children for procreation. Someone gives birth to children as their pension fund, and someone to get a mother’s capital. Well, or society dictates its will, and a woman goes and gives birth. Someone gets knocked up from fornication, and someone sincerely falls in love and wants a child from their love object.
Time passes, it runs. Children grow up. The first pimple, the first dates, buying clothes in an adult store, not in a children’s store. The child grew up, left the nest. To eventually create your own and become a parent. It is ok. That’s how it should be. But you’re left alone as a parent.
Everything in this world is temporary and nothing belongs to you as property. Not people, not even your apartment. You will die, and your living space will go to your descendants.
A person, if you think about it, is very lonely in this world. You are the most important thing for yourself.
Every person who comes into your or my life or Uncle Petya’s life from the second entrance is a kind of teacher. Even if that person hurt you. Especially if that person was close to you. It can be your parent, relative, girlfriend, or friend, the person you shared a bed with. This pain, disappointment, loss, resentment, hatred are your lessons that life in this university world gives you. Situations with people gently guide a person to self-perfection. Through poverty, pain, and self-denial. You can call it divine pendal, so that you can develop. Through all the negative moments in life, through sorrow, hard work, the soul is armed with experience and strengthened for spiritual development.
Everything is trivial. If your mother-in-law behaved incorrectly, learn from this. When your son gets married, you will know how to behave with his wife. If your parents pushed you all your life, and you have complexes about it, be wise and don’t raise your children the way you were raised. I digress.
At first, there were human teachers at my university. Some of them were wrong, like all people. Everyone has the right to make mistakes. Only the gods are not mistaken, but for me personally, God is a concept that represents the thoughts and powers of people who remember him.
The main mistake of all teachers is that they want their students to create their own copies. So that they can think and feel according to their teacher’s instructions. The mentor’s task is to show the way. And whether the student will follow it is up to the student. The mentor doesn’t interfere with the student even if the student turns around and goes back. The teacher only transmits knowledge and doesn’t make copies of himself, and especially doesn’t turn his students into fans of him.
When I realized that earthly teachers were wrong, I came to the main conclusion that there should be no idols or authorities in the human world for me. When a person becomes the object of people’s worship, their ego swells and sooner or later will burst like a balloon. Those who worship their idols give them their energy and time. Human attention is an important resource. They seem to pump the object of their worship with vital energy, which, as a rule, leads to collapse sooner or later. As a person grows spiritually, they should not join in with the crowd at all.
The second important conclusion I made for myself was that only stealth and playing helps to survive in this world. So, the earthly teachers were just a stage for me. Because demand creates supply, we were taught by those who were one step ahead of us in terms of spiritual development, having no body density but having knowledge. People called them gods and they had different names for these creatures in every nation.